Before addressing the main topic of this blog post, I would like to ask my bottom followers not to cry because of me.
As this one has:
I truly am a total bottom, and crying isn't going to change that!
Being a bottom has nothing to do with getting fucked and letting my ass drink hot semen.
It's a state of mind.
I love the feeling of strong hands holding my white ass cheeks and revealing my dark hole. I enjoy being exposed and vulnerable while the top admires the most intimate part of my body.
As this photographer has (note his shadow on the left)
I feel loved, admired, used and valued simultaneously while a man is fucking and kissing me.
Occasionally I fuck and breed my boyfriend because he seeds me quite often.
However, I don't like being dominant, and so my enjoyment as a top pales compared to when I'm submissive.
As for the main topic of this blog:
I received many messages after my recent blog post about mature men and "boys."
In case you missed it, here it is:
Here's one response that I particularly liked:
"Hello to my sexy friend,
I enjoyed your dialogue on why older men call you a boy. Being one myself, all I can do is tell you why I like to call some younger guys I meet 'boys'."
"I don't call everyone younger 'boy.'"
"After thinking about it upon reading your blog, I think it's a sexual title for me. If I call you a boy, I would probably like to fuck you.
I generally like younger men...
...the kind with boyish smooth bodies and a nice thick bush, fully grown, not trimmed."
My boyfriend is even more a "boy" than me.
"I want someone who would enjoy me being in charge. I would like to have sex with a boy like you that has such a sensitive love hole.
I find it so fucking hot, Theon, when you moan and groan, fingering your hole."
"That is such a turn-on for me.
I can imagine myself making you scream using my mouth on your hot wet hole and then fingering and patting it with my wet finger.
I want to use lube or spit. Either one is good for me. Which do you prefer?"
"I sent you a dick pic in my bed with the city view out of my open windows. I am on my back, and my thick, hard cock points to heaven.
I don't know if you keep the photos you receive or get rid of them. I know you get so many."
I keep all the photos I receive, but I only publish those for which I have permission.
For example this one, belonging to an Italian horse:
His email was lovely, and it was refreshing to hear what an older guy thinks about the "boy" topic.
Others have also said the same thing, more or less.
But some took it one step further, arguing that sex with 16-year-old boys (in Israel, the age of consent is 16- but in the States it's not!) isn't such a terrible thing
Such as this follower from the States:
"I know you used the term "sick fucker” referring to men who are into teen boys. I get the big picture of that, of course. "
He was referring to this sentence from my recent blog post:
"I'm not sure what made that sick fucker think he would find "boy erotica" in my blog."
Here's the rest of his message:
"In the US, anyone under 18 is considered underage, so anyone over that could potentially end up arrested, in prison, and labeled a child molester for the rest of his life."
"But on the flip side, I think it's a very blurry area, and that 18 is just a random age, basically. There's nothing magical overnight from when you're 17 and 364 days old vs. the next day when you're 18.
Now don't misunderstand ...!
I'm not saying I should have a right to do something with an eight-year-old. But a 16 yo is different.
A 16 yo is, for all general purposes, a man, not a boy. He's got pubic hair, a full-sized dick, and balls, and he can release sperm.
He knows pretty damn well what he's doing. ( and NO, and so you understand, I've never done anything sexual with any guy below 20 as an adult ), but I'm totally upfront with you in that if a 16 approached me for a blow job..seriously ... what's the big deal, really?
No, I wouldn't do it because the laws are as they are but yet ... in a real sense, I don't really see what the big deal is."
What's my opinion about his point of view?
He was right about one thing:
Nothing magical happens when a teenager becomes 18. However, a line must be drawn somewhere, as it is with many other aspects of life.
As a society, we want to protect the next generation by having a minimum age for getting a driver's license, getting married, buying beer/weed/cigarettes, being drafted into the army, etc.
Indeed, some 16-year-old teens are mature, but most of them are not!
Being mature has nothing to do with how much sperm you have in your balls or how lush your pubic hair is, as he'd suggested.
Besides, some 16-year-old teens have hardly any pubic hair.
As regards: "He's got a full-sized dick," that's also not true.
A penis “reaches maturity” at the age of 21.
Such small details aside, his argument makes no sense to me.
Some 18-year-old guys are smooth and have very little pubic hair. Does it make them less mature than a hairy 16-year-old?
As for releasing sperm, already at the age of 14 my ejaculations were legendary as they are today.
My sex partners sometimes joke that I ejaculate more than I pee.
However, shooting loads of cum doesn't make a teenager mature!
The whole point behind banning sex with minors is to prevent exploitation by the older partner. It's not because a teenager has a small penis or no pubic hair.
As regards: "A 16 yo is, for all general purposes, a man, not a boy."
It's true that teenagers have a lot of confidence, but in reality, they know nothing. Therefore, it's easy for manipulative adults to take advantage of them.
When Gidi fucks me, he's always manly and dominant. He was the same when he was 16, five years ago.
However, at that age, after he'd ejaculated (usually twice in a row), he laughed and behaved like a child. Since I'd thought he was 18, I figured he was an immature one.
I could have easily exploited his innocence, but, of course, I didn't.
In any case, the mental and emotional differences between a 16-year-old and an 18-year-old are tremendous. That's why I would never knowingly meet someone so young, even though it's perfectly legal in Israel.
Here are some more arguments that he sent me:
"A couple of times a year around here, you'll read about, say, a 30 yo female teacher being arrested for having sex with a 17 yo boy student.
The teacher gets in all the trouble and her reputation ruined, but the boy comes off totally free. Parents of the boy- "what a monster she is for taking advantage of my little boy"!!
I say BS to that! (bull shit).
A 17 yo knows exactly what he's doing and getting into. I'd bet 75% of the time it's the boy who started the flirtation with the teacher."
What's my answer to those arguments?
His assertions, in my opinion, make no sense because engaging sexually with a person you're in charge of (particularly minors) is considered severe sexual harassment regardless of age!
When I was in the army, I often fantasized about getting fucked by my soldiers. It would have been wrong (and would have led to a dishonorable discharge)
I still remember all their naked bodies and magnificent hairy cocks!
He concluded with the following paragraph:
"Most 16-year-olds have matured into a man's body (minus a hairy chest or a thick beard). Again, I'm not saying men should approach a 15-17 for sexual fun, but it's frustrating that the adult gets in all the trouble while the boy gets nothing but sympathy.
18 is such a generalized random age.
What are your thoughts about that, Theon?"
My answer to his final argument is that an adult gets all the blame because, well, he is an adult!
Being an adult comes with a lot of perks but also responsibilities.
On a final note, I don't understand what's so exciting about having sex with a young man (of legal age!)
Sure, many young guys look like Greek gods with a cock that seems to stay hard for hours. However, sex with them is usually a hellish experience.
That's why I prefer older, experienced lovers.
As a bottom, it's even more critical.
What's wrong with young lovers?
They cum too fast.
They only focus on their desire to empty their balls.
They demand my hole without devoting time for foreplay...
...and they often disappear after shooting their seed, even if I haven't.
And one final reminder:
I was raped by a guy in his 50s when I was 17. I had pubic hair, and my smooth balls were full of sperm, but that didn't make me mature!
That vile person manipulated me and used his life experiences to get a hold of my cock and hole.
To this day, I shiver when I recall how he exploited my body.
I showered for hours after he'd let go of me.
So, please don't debate with me why adults should have sex with minors. It's simply wrong!!!
I also want to address followers who (unlike the previous one) actually fantasize about having sex with a minor...
...such as this one:
I pity people who have such disturbing fantasies!
I'm done tolerating such unsettling messages!
That includes blog followers telling me how they'd enjoyed getting fucked by their brother/uncle/father/etc.
That's simply awful!