"Always wear condoms!! Medications are starting to be ineffective to STIs!!! Gays are practically killing themselves for cheap thrills. Don't be stupid!!!!!!"
A guy wrote this comment yesterday.
This comment, to me, is homophobic.
Let's start with the obvious: Guys, not "Gays," like to have lots of sex. The conservative media and politicians enjoy picturing us as a group of people who are lustful and spread diseases. This statement suggests that they are right.
It is more likely for a straight guy who is not using prep not to wear a condom because his female partner takes birth control pills.
The second thing that bothered me in this statement is: "cheap thrills.". To call sex a "cheap thrill" is another very conservative statement.
Sex is a powerful force that drives life. Look at our culture, at the way people behave. Human beings are very sexual. It is not a "cheap thrill." It is one of the most enjoyable physical practices that exist. Done with the right partner and the right way, it can lift you to new heights.
I think that my very satisfied smile and a widely open hole can give you a clue how much I enjoyed my "Cheap Thrill". I'll write about our lovemaking some other time. We both had an amazing orgasm.
I think that my very satisfied smile and widely open hole can give you a clue how much I enjoyed my "Cheap Thrill". I'll write about our lovemaking some other time. We both had an amazing orgasm.
And lastly: "killing themselves."
Let's start with the facts:
You can get Chlamydia and Gonorrhea from giving a blog job or touching the guy's cock and then touching yours, or from rubbing the two cocks together. It is highly contagious.
I got Chlamydia twice during my lifetime, both times when I was using condoms. The infection happened not from anal sex.
If you take prep, you were vaccinated for HEP (A&B), and get tested for Syphilis twice a year; nothing can kill you from unprotected sex.
Let's talk about things that do kill you:
Eating eggs, dairy and dead bodies of animals
Being overweight (a 10% or higher is a risk factor)
Not working out regularly
Working out, but not doing aerobics
High Blood pressure
Working long hours
I have a feeling most, if not all people, that voice their fear from sex, are killing themselves on a daily basis.
As for me:
I don't smoke,
My weight is ideal
I work out five times a week
I run 7 miles three times a week
I drink very little and never get drunk
My blood pressure is 70/110
I leave work twice a week at 3 PM, and one day I work from home
I think I'll be fine.
In this photo: Me, enjoying a cheap thrill while killing myself...
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