Grower or Shower?

I'm a grower, not a shower.

If you are not familiar with these terms here's a quick explanation:

A shower is a guy whose cock is massive when it isn't hard. In most cases, it does not grow a lot when it gets hard.

A grower is a guy whose cock is small when soft and grows a lot when it gets hard.

The Belgian stud I made love to in the summer was a classic shower:

Does it make any difference to me?

Would I have liked to be a shower instead?

Perhaps the following facts will give you some more insights on my approach to nudity when it comes to deciding on whose shoulders I place my legs before opening my ass.

Every day, I get plenty of messages from guys wishing to make love to my ass. However, there are two types of messages that I detest the most:

The first one is: "Send me your pics."

And the second one is: "How big is your cock?"

How do I respond to these messages, and why do I hate them so much?

When a guy demands that I send him my photos, I already know he's going to be a lousy lover. I know that because, on Grindr, I have five photos showing both my face and my body. In all my pictures I'm wearing either a swimsuit or a jock (frontal) and of course, I'm shirtless.

When a person asks to see "my pics," in reality, he is asking to see my ass, hole, and sometimes my cock.

As my blog follower, you know I have no problem showing any part of my body.

I also don't mind sharing photos showing how I get fucked:

Sex and nudity are normal to me.

However, the person asking to see my ass/hole/cock already sees my body and can see that I'm quite toned and muscular.

I don't believe that seeing my colorful hole should help him decide if he wants us to make love. If seeing my smooth ass is so crucial for him to make up his mind, then he's probably going to be a terrible lover.

How do I respond to this request?

If I have been speaking with the guy for a while, I will respond by saying that I don't have nude photos. If the guy wants to see my photos after only a few messages, I ignore his request.