So, how does one become a nudist?
The most important thing about feeling comfortable naked in the presence of others (who may or may not be naked) is to feel comfortable about your body.
For example, yesterday, I was at a party with a group of friends. Most of the other men were dancing shirtless, proudly exposing their ripped bodies.
My friends and I felt comfortable taking off our shirts even though none of us have a perfect mid-section.
It takes too much time and effort to keep your stomach flat.
I often write against the practice of shaving or trimming body hair.
I do it not only because I prefer hairy men but also because I try to promote loving your body the way it is.
If you adore your body, you will feel comfortable naked, even among your friends!
All my friends have seen my naked body many times.
The practice that I often criticize is shaving your ass and anus.
I do because I think it's ridiculous, and the result is usually quite horrid. A shaved ass usually has cuts, red spots, and sometimes rash or unattractive pimples.
Even if you perfectly shave your ass with no side effects, the outcome isn't appealing, in my opinion.
The combination of hairy legs and a smooth ass is bizarre.
There's no body hair already a few inches below a naturally smooth ass like mine.
Having said all that, I want to share with you a different opinion sent by a blog follower:
If you'll allow me, I would like to share some information and insight from a different perspective about a couple of pieces of information you mentioned in a recent blog post.
Like any other job that's worth doing right, you need to start with the proper tools if you want to get the proper results.
For me, an electric shaver became the perfect solution for removing those ass hairs and leaving behind a smooth rear, free of blemishes, irritation, and razor bumps.
It's also very helpful to adopt a similar cleaning regimen for the new, shiny caboose as the one many people adhere to for the face.
Once in the morning, once before bed, and don't be shy or feel embarrassed about applying astringent and moisturizer after the mowing is done.
Skin is skin, and it will respond the same way despite the location.
For the love tunnel the same type of grooming tool that's meant for keeping the hairs of the nostrils at bay and preventing them from making any unwanted and unexpected sudden appearances. I'm naturally hairy, and my rear and hole were as smooth as a Barry White tune when the grooming was said and done."
I apply moisturizer on my smooth ass and cum hole, just as I do on my face because it makes the skin very soft.
Even my masseur says that I have a baby's ass.
Regarding his other suggestions, I leave it to you to determine if it's worth all that trouble.
Personally, the idea of anything sharp next to my very sensitive hole sounds awful.
It's the most tender and sensitive part of my body!
I've seen the backside of thousands (perhaps even tens of thousands) of naked men.
Most guys have an ass that's not very appealing, and it has nothing to do with how furry it is.
It's because people don't work out or don't know how to work out their ass muscles.
If you are concerned that your ass isn't sexy enough, then forget the nonsense about shaving it and removing hair from your hole.
Instead, work out daily!
And now to the main topic of this blog post: Nudism.
First, it's essential to understand what being a nudist means or, more importantly, what it doesn't mean.
Being naked at home alone has nothing to do with nudism.
It's just being comfortable.
Going to a nudist beach, and searching for sex, also doesn't make you a nudist.
It's merely an exciting way to drain your testicles.
Being naked alone outdoors also has nothing to do with nudism.
It's an exciting way to connect with nature, though.
Lastly, getting sexually excited when someone is staring at your naked body isn't about nudism.
I know that because I publish many nude photos, you might think I'm an exhibitionist.
That's totally untrue!
It doesn't excite me when people stare at my cock or glance at my wet ass.
I also never expose my fuck hole intentionally.
Such photos are just for the blog:
If you still think I'm an exhibitionist and aren't convinced by my explanations, please keep your opinion to yourself.
I'm tired of debating with people who fail to see the difference, and I stopped caring about it.
So what is nudism all about?
To me, it's about body acceptance, feeling free naked, and not being ashamed when others see me naked.
Most non-nudist confuse nudity with sex. Therefore, I'm often asked what's my reaction when I bone unintentionally at the beach.
That's another vital aspect of nudism that people fail to understand: It's not supposed to excite you sexually...
...on the contrary.
I feel relaxed and pleased when I get rid of my clothes at the nudist beach (or while hiking).
I often share how I enjoy blowing a guy off or getting fucked at the beach, but that's because I like sex indoors and outdoors.
It has nothing to do with being a nudist, and that's why I rarely get hard unintentionally at the beach.
In fact, when a guy bluntly shows off his erection, it usually makes me lose interest in him.
Unless he's an exceptionally sexy guy such as this stud:
I believe that nudity brings people together in ways that aren't possible when clothed.
It can lead to sex, but that's not why I'm naked at the beach. It's all about nude bonding first and fucking later.
Therefore, when a top intentionally plays with his hard cock to draw my attention, I usually lose interest in extracting his seed.
I prefer talking with a potential breeder first and getting hard later.
But what do I do if, like any penis, mine decides to bone on its own?
I smile because a hard-on is a normal body function that, for me, happens quite often.
I hope that you feel the same way!
I think it's relatively easy to understand what nudism is and what has nothing to do with it.
However, that doesn't help someone interested in becoming a nudist if he doesn't feel comfortable about his body.
One concern that I hear often is that guys are ashamed to expose their cock because it's not impressive when flaccid.
I explained why bragging about your hard cock is probably not the best approach at the nudist beach.
However, what if your flaccid cock is relatively small?
A flaccid cock is still beautiful to look at!
In addition, it's exciting to see a relatively small cock, grows considerably when boned...
...like mine does.
Cock size aside, most people are ashamed to be naked in public.
They feel too fat/thin/hairy/smooth/whatever.
A month ago, I sat beside an incredibly sexy guy in his late 50s. He fucked me five years ago for the first time, and since then, he usually owns my ass twice every beach season.
I find him particularly sexy because of his toned body and lush fur.
Before offering him my hole, I enjoy sucking his large cock while running my fingers all over his fury ass and terrific hairy anus.
Like most tops at the beach, he enjoys breeding me doggie-style:
Many people were at the beach that afternoon, so he kept his speedo and tank top on.
I asked him about it.
"I'm embarrassed by my small cock." he told me.
In response, I pointed at my small, flaccid cock.
"Well, you're a bottom, so you don't need to impress potential sex partners with a big penis. You've got your fantastic ass for that."
"They can't tell I'm a bottom just by looking at my ass," I argued and turned around to tease him.
I spread my ass cheeks, thus inviting him to explore my smooth hole.
In response, he admired my fuck hole and massaged it with his fingers.
I boned instantly on feeling his fingers playing with my submissive hole.
On turning back, I could see his erection through his speedo.
"Well, you can get naked now," I suggested.
He laughed in embarrassment.
"But what's with the tank top?" I asked. "Are you waiting for your nipples to get hard before taking it off?"
He frowned, "I don't like exposing my chest hair because it has turned all white."
"You can't be serious," I argued. "You're so sexy, and your chest hair makes you manly."
"It's easy for you to say that, Theon, because you will never have to worry about it. You have so little body hair...
...even your balls are smooth!"
"What do my smooth balls have to do with anything?" I asked.
"You will never understand how pathetic one feels when looking at what used to be a black furry chest, and now it's a weird mixture of mostly white and some gray."
He was wrong.
I do understand what it feels like to lose something dear to me that will never return.
I became disabled in an instant in 2019, so the memory of how my body used to function is still fresh.
I often have dreams of being healthy again. However, I accept my condition and don't dwell on the past.
Becoming disabled is far more challenging and upsetting than having your chest hair turn white.
So forget what you had and focus on what you have.
Because you really have no other choice!